{"id":15632,"date":"2019-12-04T08:50:22","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T08:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/?p=15632"},"modified":"2019-12-04T08:50:22","modified_gmt":"2019-12-04T08:50:22","slug":"the-house-of-grey-talk-by-melita-thomas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/?p=15632","title":{"rendered":"The House of Grey &#8211; Talk by Melita Thomas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><BR><\/p>\n<p>On Monday 18th November, Melita Thomas gave a talk at Hampton Court Palace. <\/p>\n<p>Melita&#8217;s talk focused on 3 mother and son relationships in the Grey family (including the father of Lady Jane).<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;The House of Grey: Friends &#038; Foes of Kings&#8217; was published by Amberley in September.<\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Melita.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Melita-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-15633\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Melita-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Melita-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Melita-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p>Melita &#8211; The Grey family were everywhere.  How could they be so important at court and yet be so little known?<\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><b>Thomas Grey and Elizabeth Woodville<\/b><\/p>\n<p>John Grey married Elizabeth Woodville and had 2 sons, Thomas and Richard.  The Greys and Woodvilles were Lancaster supporters. After John Grey was killed in battle, Elizabeth went on to marry King Edward IV. <\/p>\n<p>Woodville marriages were used to build an alternative power base to the Nevilles.<\/p>\n<p>Anne Holland was a potential bride for Thomas Grey but she died age 18.<\/p>\n<p>Thomas Grey married Cecily Bonville, who was one of the richest heiressess in the country and step-daughter of Edward IV&#8217;s ally, William Hastings. <\/p>\n<p>Thomas Grey was a regular jouster and accompanied Edward IV to France.<\/p>\n<p>The events of 1483 show a close relationship between Elizabeth and Thomas. <\/p>\n<p>Thomas would not accept overthrow of Edward V, or his brother Richard&#8217;s execution and became involved in Buckingham&#8217;s rebellion. When that failed, he fled abroad to Henry Tudor.<\/p>\n<p>When Elizabeth summoned him back to England, Thomas tried to get home but was compelled to return, Melita argued that Thomas only made a show of returning home.<\/p>\n<p>After Henry VII took the throne, Thomas returned to England and was in regular attendance at court for 2 years.<\/p>\n<p>He was the chief male mourner at his mother&#8217;s funeral in 1492.<\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><b> Cecily Bonville and Thomas Grey (2nd)<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Little is known about Thomas&#8217;s childhood. Attended the christenings of Prince Arthur and Prince Henry and later on the marriage of Prince Arthur to Catherine of Aragon.<\/p>\n<p>Cecily was appointed the executor of her husband&#8217;s will.  Thomas (1st) left the following bequests, with the money to come out of the estate:<\/p>\n<p>Bradgate to be completed<br \/>\nMausoleum at Astley to be completed<br \/>\n8 dowries for daughters<\/p>\n<p>Cecily remarried and her new husband was younger than her son.  Thomas and Cecily quarrelled and Henry VII had to intervene. If Cecily died, then her second husband would inherit.<\/p>\n<p>Her daughters wanted their dowries but there was not enough money from the estate. Cecily&#8217;s second husband died in debt, which depleted her fortune.<\/p>\n<p>In her will, Cecily made efforts to stop her son changing her bequests.  Thomas would be cut out of the will if he challenged it.<\/p>\n<p>Thomas tried to carry out the bequests left by both parents.<\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><b>Margaret Wotton and Henry Grey<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Margret Wotton was the daughter of a Woodville connection in Kent. Had 9 children with Thomas, including Henry Grey, born in 1517. Henry spent time in the household of Henry Fitzroy (illegitimate son of Henry VIII).<\/p>\n<p>In 1530 Thomas (2nd) died and left his wife as executor of the estate and guardian of their children.<\/p>\n<p>A marriage was agreed between Henry and Katherine Fitzalan. Included a \u00a34000 fee if the marriage did not go ahead. Henry refused to marry Katherine, so her father, the Earl of Arundel, withdrew from the agreement and took the money.<\/p>\n<p>Henry&#8217;s wardship\/marriage was sold to Charles Brandon at a cost of \u00a32000.  Charles then arranged a marriage with his daughter Frances.<\/p>\n<p>Margaret ceased Henry&#8217;s allowance but Charles did not support him financially and Henry blamed his mother.<\/p>\n<p>The Privy Council told Margaret to pay for Henry and Margaret wrote to Thomas Cromwell worried about her son&#8217;s behaviour.<\/p>\n<p>In the summer of 1533, Henry married Frances and was declared of age in 1538.<\/p>\n<p>Margaret had to leave Bradgate and moved to Tilty and her sister-in-law&#8217;s at Ightham Mote.<\/p>\n<p>Henry refused to let Margaret have her belongings and refused to pay his father&#8217;s bequests.  Henry was keen to have the money but not the responsibility!<\/p>\n<p>No proof they were ever reconciled before her death.<\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><b>Buy &#8216;The House of Grey&#8217;:<\/b><\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15292\" style=\"width: 212px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/614F7WZnaGL.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15292\" src=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/614F7WZnaGL-202x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"202\" height=\"300\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-15292\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/614F7WZnaGL-202x300.jpg 202w, https:\/\/ladyjanegrey.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/614F7WZnaGL.jpg 672w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-15292\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><center> (c) Amberley Publishing<\/center><\/p><\/div>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/House-Grey-Story-Medieval-Dynasty\/dp\/1445684977\/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=the+house+of+grey&#038;qid=1567885508&#038;s=gateway&#038;sr=8-3\" STYLE=\"text-decoration: none\"><b>Amazon.co.uk<\/a> <\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/www.amberley-books.com\/the-house-of-grey.html\" STYLE=\"text-decoration: none\">Amberley Publishing<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n<p><BR><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Monday 18th November, Melita Thomas gave a talk at Hampton Court Palace. 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